The lack of confidence is created when we begin to doubt
our ability. This could be caused by a bad experience or
simply when we start to worry about something
excessively. Once the faulty pattern is set it is very
difficult to change it from the conscious level.
Self-confidence is very important. If you
have low self-esteem, you will not dream up goals
because you will think that it is impossible to reach
them. Without goals, however, life would be meaningless
and boring. Having a goal is like putting an apple in
front of a horse, to make it move forward. Each time you
reach your goal, your self-confidence grows stronger and
you are encouraged to set a new goal. Each time you
accomplish something you set out to do, you get a good
feeling. This feeling cannot be taken away from you.
You don't feel good because you are better than someone
else; you feel good because of personal achievement.
After you have reached a goal, you must continue to set
goals in order to move forward in life. Why stop when
you have nothing to stop you? The Universe does not
decide if you will be successful in life; you
decide whether or not you will achieve your goals.
This is where the
MindFrame Technique® comes in. With this technique you
can access the subconscious mind and turn the negative
pattern around permanently.
"We have to understand the middle path:
that a human has a positive and a negative side.
We have a false, ignorant side, but we also have a
- Buddha nature."